I was raped twice. Refuge not only changes people’s lives, but it also saves them. But I know that I cannot keep putting myself in this environment. 3 days before they got married, he held me down, started tickling me and stuck his tongue in my ear. Did you stay?Your story is my own. I married my husband as a virgin. March 14, 2018 at 10:56 pm But still its always inside my mind and heart. Please enter with care. Not being able to tell anyone is hard because we want to talk it out but don’t want anyone to change their views on our partner. I wished he would just die already. I love mine a lot too. I married someone “like that” because I didn’t know he was “like that” when I married him. ?It happened to me, oh god! I had honestly kind of brushed it off at the time because we were both drunk, but I know I said “no, don’t” ann d he did it anyways. (((Hugs))) to us both.
I panicked and said “wait” and held up both of my hands in a stop signal and pushed against his chest. This page has helped me to realize that it’s ok to feel this way.I wonder how many women read this and just leave, without leaving a comment cause it’s to painful to even write about it or because it’s the same story over and over… That hurts even more. Even love and hate I’ve heard. March 14, 2018 at 7:51 pm It tears me apart inside and I have no one to talk about it to.
I wish you the best in navigating such uncertain paths and hope you feel safe and happy. "When my children were born, my survival instinct kicked in. I didn’t tell anyone (until recently). I didnt fight back. We had a big fight last night that resorted to physical violence. He would calm down eventually once he got over the break-up. #metoo3 years ago I believe I was raped by my husband as well… he came home from work and I was tired, trying to take a nap. I am so so sad. Others have spoken of counseling, possibly couples counseling, and it really sounds like a healthy idea.Thank you for sharing your story.
Part of me feels like I shouldve left him that day but I loved him so much and still do. While my daughter was taking a shower the 28 YO piece of shit kicked down the door, pulled my daughter out of the shower and raped her vaginaly and anally. He instantly looked at me in shock, he couldn’t believe what he had done. He’s trying to find ways to bug my phone and retrieve deleted messages.
A Nigeria Married woman narrates how she was raped before her husband, now the husband wants to divorce her because she enjoyed the rape.
March 29, 2019 at 1:01 pm But we’d have sex everyday usually at least twice a day. Courtesy Mandy Boardman. I was too scared of him becoming moody and emotionally withdrawing from me (a feature of our relationship) and so didn’t mention it again. I was raped by my husband 4 years ago. But I understand he made a mistake.
He never pressures me to do anything and he loves me and feels beyond evil for that drunken and high night 24 years ago. He would stop ignoring the kids and stop harassing me, and he would be nice and take care of us, and everything would be sunshine and rainbows— if I would just love him again.
He started to get on top of me and dry humping me and I said “no I’m tired.” He ignored me and started pulling my shorts down while I held them up telling him to stop and that I was tired. I didn’t want him to feel bad. I don’t remember anything in detail and up until last week, had always thought I never said “no” (he recently told me I did say no, twice, before he stopped).
My sociology textbook talks about “learned helplessness,” and lists reasons that are almost entirely victim-centric. One of the worst problems of having to deal with an abuse situation in a relationshp is the lack of empathy from the abuser. I’ve been in therapy for 9 months now and I bet I’ll be in it for another 9. He said he was scared to lose me and he couldn’t believe he did that.
December 16, 2018 at 1:24 pm To us all. He felt awful about it, apologized profusely for days and I refused to ever think about it again.